Trans
General trans community.
Rules:
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Follow all blahaj.zone rules
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All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
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Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on
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I mean, labels are all shorthand for others to understand your lived experience, yeah? Some people who are non-binary call themselves trans, some don't, and both groups are equally valid. Some people who are non-binary live comfortably with the same gender presentation as what they got assigned at birth, and that's just as valid. Ditto for binary people, trans or otherwise.
Who you are inside you is what's important, the rest is just stuff to help others get an idea of it if/when you choose to share.
I think that if I said without any context that I'm trans people might think I'm transfem, or if they knew I was AFAB they might think I'm trying to appropriate transfem experiences. I like the trans flag and think it's cute (I've even thought of getting thigh highs like these but I worry people will get the wrong idea and think I'm apropriating trans women).
You won't be appropriating anything, friend! You are free to feel out your gender and identify as trans if that is what makes sense to you, From what you've described you've got gender stuff™ going on, so fly your flag!
Also, other trans and enby people who see those colors on you will feel safer in your presence and you'll be sending a signal about trans stuff being okay in general, so even if you weren't trans why would anyone object?
That's very true, you make very good points. I often have this problem that I end up overthinking things and worry too much that people will get upset with me. Also that's very true, you make a great point about other people seeing the colors and feeling safer whether I'm trans or not.