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For me it's having kids. I never wanted them and people kept saying I'd change my mind, needed to meet the right person, my feelings would change if I had one etc. I always flat out refused and would point blank tell people this. I've never had kids, and I'm nearly menopausal and single so definitely won't. And I'm 1000000% happy I don't!
I love my freedom, children and parenting isn't my cup of tea and I've really done what's right for me.
Same here. I've ended relationships with people I otherwise adored over their inability to accept this choice.
Yes it's a dealbreaker. Not something you can compromise on!