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[–] Transporter_Room_3@startrek.website 35 points 6 months ago (6 children)

Before I read the comments I'm sure it's either jokes/memes or "this is unhealthy"

Nah fuck that. Some people deserve lifelong hate.

You don't sit there seething day after day, dwelling on it constantly.

But whenever they come up, perfectly reasonable to say "fuck that noise, piss off" and be done with it.

"forgive and forget" can eat shit and die.

[–] GardenVarietyAnxiety@lemmy.world 19 points 6 months ago (5 children)

It takes emotional bandwidth to carry hate, whether you think about it often or not.

It's not a question of right or wrong, or whether it's deserving or not. You're paying for it as long as you're carrying it, so I would ask if it's still worth it.

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