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[–] bitwaba@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Good luck man!

As someone that left the US a decade and a half ago, here's some things to go ahead and start getting answers to so you don't have to figure it out when the time comes:

  • Figure out how to get a bank account (hopefully you've already worked this one out before arriving)
  • Where to buy toiletries and medicine. Specifically deodorant. The UK is mostly spray deodorant where as I'm a stick deodorant person. At one point I was just bringing 4 sticks of deodorant back with me after every trip home. I'm not sure which way NZ leans but it was definitely something I hadn't considered before
  • Where to buy socks and underwear you're comfortable with
  • Figure out how the health service/insurance works. Go ahead and book dentist and doctors appointments 6 months in advance if possible so you get in the habit.
  • Figure out how paying taxes works
  • If you're a US citizen, remember you're still required to file taxes with the IRS every year.
  • Learn how to make friends. I still haven't figured this one out. Let me know if you do.
[–] thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world 12 points 3 hours ago

good luck on your journey.

[–] bluewing@lemm.ee -2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Ahhh, the privileged leaving behind the many to suffer that want to leave but can't.

[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 hour ago

Purity tests like this aren't helping.

[–] MrPoopyButthole@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 6 hours ago

Good choice

[–] randint@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 14 points 7 hours ago
[–] WhatYouNeed@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago

Nau mai ki Aotearoa!

[–] kaprap@leminal.space 8 points 8 hours ago

Hope down under treats you better

[–] alchemist2023@lemmy.world 16 points 11 hours ago

left the UK 13yrs ago and never regretted it

skills shortage list is how I got in, and being under 40 (at the time) gave me points in their system.

anyway just going to drop this here if YouTube is allowed

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWLlDIzi8SU

[–] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 29 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Congrats on having a backbone. Hope you enjoy the vast experiences in your new life!

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Having a backbone would be to stick around and fight this shit; not flee.

[–] r0ertel@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

That's a bit harsh. Like my old man always said, "you gotta know when to hold 'em; know when to fold 'em; know when to walk away and know when to run."

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It's not. Granted, I 100% respect and understand someone's decision to leave the USA at this time, but there's very little that's courageous about putting yourself into a better situation. It's the next option up from rolling over and dying.

[–] bitwaba@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Yeah, walking away from every person you've ever known and every support system you've ever had in hopes of a better future with no real promises to fall back on if it doesn't work out isn't courageous at all.

[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

That song is about a gambler's desire for selfish self-preservation, not "having a backbone"

[–] wildlyfist@lemmy.world 30 points 14 hours ago

NZ? You a billionaire?

[–] aquinteros@lemmy.world 26 points 14 hours ago

just remember to keep voting, don't let what happened to Venezuela happen to you guys

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