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[–] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 32 points 1 week ago (8 children)

I challenge your premise: They are mad. Not all of them, but plenty of people are upset and angry. More to follow the way things are going: The worse things get, the angrier they'll get.

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[–] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lack of organization. We're many of us individually mad, but there is no organization.

Say what you will but Jan 6th and then some is what we should be doing, but we aren't.

All I'm doing now is hoarding ammunition and periodically buying more guns because I 1000% believe we're going to see war soon.

I'm also donating money to charities, helping people in my community that are struggling, and telling fascists to fuck off.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I don't own a gun and, personally, I find the idea barbaric.

But at this point I acknowledge that it's time to arm myself. This is how far our society has degenerated.

However, I 100% disagree with Jan 6. That was a bunch of children with absolutely zero understanding of what they were doing. That was an example of how NOT to have a meaningful rebellion against an oppressive system. Those were fools behaving like fools and cheapening the idea of activism. They had no grasp of what they were doing or why. They were the antithesis of a true patriot that wants what is best for their society and goes about achieving that in a responsible, effective manner that inspires people to be the best version of a democratic citizen. They should not be idolized. They are an embarrassment to our nation.

We should be setting a better example. We are shaming this democracy in a way that makes me physically ill. We are acting in a way as to paint us as failures in a historical context to future generations and it is truly shameful. This is our legacy.

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[–] brygphilomena@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 1 week ago (2 children)

We all are. The left and the right.

We have all been told from different sources who or what to be mad about.

Some were so mad about contrived issues they voted in someone who campaigned on destroying the federal government.

Others are pissed off that that person who was voted in is destroying the federal government.

The outrage machine literally is why the fascist pig is in the Whitehouse in the first place.

What you might be asking is why we aren't rioting in the streets. Just know that some of us are 4 times as far from our countries capital as London is from Berlin. In a blue state, who would I be protesting to? The people who already agree with me?

[–] invertedspear@lemm.ee 14 points 1 week ago

Protests don’t work if the people in power don’t care. One dude with a gun did more to shake up people in power than any recent protest has. Look how Elon wears his kids as human shields now. Protests are to bring awareness, the world is aware. We are now in need of people willing to take action.

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[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 24 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I'm not American, but from what I can see, its mostly:

  • Apathy
  • Not being clued in
  • Beliving nothing can be done
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[–] BmeBenji@lemm.ee 22 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I’m mad. I’m very mad. I’m also very tired of watching political movements get shut down by the people who respond with “yes, we need to do better” followed by a handful of performative actions, and absolutely no substantive change.

I believe in a general strike. Wholeheartedly. I believe it would make real change. How the hell do I organize one safely? How do I trust any of the other people online who claim to be organizing them?

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[–] loopedcandle@lemmynsfw.com 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Real talk?

Because I'm tired. So absurdly tired. Tired of the stupid and the sensationalism and the faked anger and the real suffering and pain.

Am I mad? Yeah. But unfortunately I'm way more tired.

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[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Fatigue.

We're too distracted by struggling to survive our small local daily struggles to even SEE the big picture.

If there's a time bomb in the room ticking down before your eyes, yeah that's a big deal. If, in that same room, you're also being attacked by a pack of rabid dogs though, chances are you've stuck a pin in the whole "what about the bomb" thing.

And if there's a sniper outside the room preparing to shoot you without even a moment's notice that you KNOW is there and that you can't even see AS WELL, all you can hope for us that all the moving around you're doing to avoid being dragged down and torn apart by the rabid dogs will throw off their shots.

They have BLINDED US WITH TRAUMA.

Normal people are fighting for their lives on a daily basis JUST contending with their landlords, their bosses, their financial institutions, their utility expenses, their groceries. They don't see the ways in which these challenges are driven by the federal government's policies on a national scale.

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (4 children)

What makes you think we aren’t mad?

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[–] InFerNo@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Was reading r/conservative to see what's on their minds regarding the events of late, and they are in there celebrating.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

r/conservative is a highly curated indoctrination machine. It's purpose is to pull in conservative leaning people and teach them party line. If your on r/conservative you're acquiescing to the group think or you stay silent.

But that's still an answer for you. It's easy to fight back if we're united, but they have a huge contingent of armed absolute morons celebrating the Nazification, rape, and pillaging of the country.

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Visibly queer minority here! I’m probably gonna go to jail sometime in the next year for being trans in public. Until I do though, I’ve been lobbying state congress about some of the bills on the docket.

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[–] scoobford@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Your core supposition is wrong, basically everyone is mad about the state of our country. We just have several different ideas on how to fix it and two parties who are dedicated to making it worse.

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[–] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Who says we aren’t? Do you know how big this country is, and how much money it takes to fly to DC to protest? Do you understand that nobody wants to die for taking a shot at Trump or Elon?

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[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

Bread and circuses

[–] SomeAmateur@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

It gets said over and over but the country is huge and your experience can vary greatly. If you are a govt employee work is likely more chaotic, some more than others. Telework people coming back to the office, looming layoffs, people resigning/staying, big organizational shifts etc.

If you know a person deported of who may be deported you are probably very concerned for them and the world feels turned upside down.

But for most people the gas prices are about the same, groceries are about the same and their life is about the same. If it wasn't for the news/internet most people probably couldn't tell the difference between administrations so far. It takes a big event you can't easily ignore (Covid 19, Hurricane Helene, LA fires) for even ONE REGION of the country to focus on a problem for a while.

And even then if you are outside of that area people probably won't change their routine beyond posting about it.

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[–] mrslt@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)
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[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We're all mad at each other.

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[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 11 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Most of us want someone else to do what needs to be done because we're too busy simply making ends meet. Sure, let me just call out of work to do some protesting, oh shit, now I can't afford rent, or food, or my meds, or paying off my last Dr visit, etc.

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[–] psmgx@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

Decades of very effective propaganda combined with intrinsic ideological biases.

[–] Gen_Euffe@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

Complacency

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

We're all mad

[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

own the libs is more important than progress

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 week ago

Culture war.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I’m plenty mad but every solution short of REDACTED feels like a waste of time.

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[–] metaStatic@kbin.earth 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 7 points 1 week ago

Ignorance and apathy.

[–] raynethackery@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

We are mad but we are also distracted and overwhelmed. You can't get mad at work because you might get fired. Then there goes your housing and food and healthcare. It's going to have to get a lot worse before things pop off.

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