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I am curious if the majority of leftist people don't actually want children haha. There doesn't seem to be any studies about it, but my convos with leftists is that most don't seem to want to have children either for the uncertainty of the future or because they are too expensive or because it wouldn't give them too much time to organize or whatever other reason that I forgot about.

I personally lean on not having children because I have been laid off of several jobs and having someone financially dependent to me scares the shit out of me and would put my stress levels through the roof.

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[–] cayde6ml@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 1 week ago (10 children)

I'm a partial anti-natalist (only partially) but I don't hate children, ofc. And I do think that globally speaking, a falling birth rate is a major problem.

In regards to having children, I got a vasectomy over a year ago, and my Girl never wants to have biological children.

I almost definitely never want to have any children, period. But I wouldn't be completely against adoption, after we move to Chengdu one day.

But that would take decades' worth of personal growth/change from me.

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[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml -1 points 1 week ago

I don't. Part of it is because of being trans and infertile, part of me wonders if I can handle it mentally and financially. And I missed out of my own childhood and teenagehood a little bit and I want to catch up and can't do that if I get children.

There's also the overpopulation concern.

[–] driving_crooner -1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (38 children)

I already cut my balls off, my wife wants to cut of hers too, but we live in a patriarchal society where men can choose what their do with their bodies while women need two kids to do the same.

I'm antinatalist, but don't hate children. Would adopt, but my wife have not interest and isn't something I care that much.

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[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com -2 points 1 week ago

Nope, because I don't like kids. I'm not planning to maintain a poop factory and don't think I'd be interested in giving up my hobbies to help some teenager

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