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[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 21 points 6 days ago

This is part of why confidence is attractive.

It isn't that confident humans of the male reproductive caste treat women more flippantly; it's that actual competency correlates with not being as much of an insufferable whiny piece of shit.

[–] FlapJackFlapper@lemm.ee 31 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Hate is often just a reflection of insecurities and a product of attempting to alleviate cognitive dissonance. Someone feels scared, doesn't like feeling that way, and so converts their fear into anger -- misdirected at someone else.

[–] tacobellhop@midwest.social 5 points 6 days ago

Balance is the key. True that fear leads to anger and anger to hatred and a path of the dark side, but the Jedi were also guilty of dealing in absolutes until they were fighting outright fascism via space capitalism and clone contracts they built killed them all.

[–] umbraroze@lemmy.world 28 points 1 week ago

I remember the last time I got messaged by some misogynist dipshit, way back in Halo 5, blaming me for losing the game. ...When he was the worst performing player in the team. I just stared at the post game report and wondered how the heck the dude even managed to get a ranking as low as he did.

[–] the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world 25 points 6 days ago

My daughter wanted to wear my headset when I was playing battlefield once. It was so funny listening to those losers rage because they Were getting stomped by a 5 yr old girl. Now days she still puts it on from time to time and it's still hilarious.

[–] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago

That summary may also explain why some men are so insecure about women earning more money than them too.

[–] HalfSalesman@lemm.ee 11 points 6 days ago

I was a Halo 3 try hard and if anything I was nicer to female voices because I stupidly wanted to woo them. IDK exactly what the logistics of that would have been thinking back.

[–] Elevator7009@lemmy.zip 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

work to improve the skill gap or draw 20

acknowledge that one singular woman is currently better than you at this one particular skill or draw 20

man it's like there are options that don't involve aggression towards another person for… not being bad at a video game

I count myself lucky the men I know in real life are chill, and that I am not too interested in PvP games, scared off by the constant reinforcement from stories online that someone will be shitty to me because I am a woman. When I did play TF2 it was always pubs mic off and with a very gender-neutral username.

[–] drthunder@midwest.social 4 points 6 days ago

I got hit on a couple times in Starcraft 2 of all games just because I had a feminine-sounding username. I literally got "damn girl, look at that MMR" once and it's so funny.

[–] AoxoMoxoA@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Noted : misogyny is a submissive issue

[–] LeninOnAPrayer@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Didn't sample all of the shitty halo players that are too afraid to talk to a women.

[–] arotrios@lemmy.world 0 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Incel in a nutshell:

Manchild in the brain!

Weird Al, take that one with my blessing and run for the hills... cause judging by the downvotes, the incels have my scent.

[–] osaerisxero@kbin.melroy.org 134 points 1 week ago (10 children)

🌏👨‍🚀🔫👨‍🚀

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 113 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I never understood this mentality, myself.

Gamers: "I never get laid... 😩"

Also Gamers: "Women are just kitchen accessories."

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[–] Inf_V@kbin.earth 86 points 1 week ago (6 children)

"but behaved more submissively towards players with a male voice" I want to know what they mean by submissive

[–] thelasttoot@lemmy.world 90 points 1 week ago

They were less confrontational and more likely to accept direction

[–] EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone 78 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] xavier666@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago

"Given the chance, they would definitely lock lips with the dominant male"

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[–] squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone 77 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Obligatory footnote: EvoPsych is mostly bunk, deeply intertwined with eugenics and riddled with homophobia, sexism and rape apologia.

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[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 69 points 1 week ago (21 children)

I have ~10k hours in counterstrike across multi game versions and accounts. I noticed a similar thing over my years. The players doing well in a match were often neutral towards gamer girls, but the guy having a shit match would be the fastest sack of shit every time. Especially if one of the top fraggers pointed out they were being beaten by a girl.

Obviously there are always exceptions to any rules but in my anecdotal experience the guys who were confident in their abilities didn't care about women but losers would attack them just for speaking.

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[–] Baggie@lemmy.zip 65 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Well then the obvious conclusion is that respecting women makes you better at video games.

[–] TwanHE@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

More likely higher ranked players finally figured out that keeping harmony within your team does wonders for your chance at winning. The amount of infighting I've had to stop just to save my elo is insane, why would i start something just because of someone's gender.

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[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 48 points 1 week ago

I have noticed that all of these misogynists are incredibly insecure alpha-pretending males. Can't imagine how tiring this constant fear must be.

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