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Hey everyone!

I'm Nick (he/them), I'm 20 and I'm looking for Fediverse friends! I'm former military, and now I'm trying to get into college (Chemical Engineering). I'd love to make friends in STEM, but anyone is welcome!

If you wanna be friends, let me know!

If this is the wrong sub, sorry admins. Idk where to go :(

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[–] droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That is a good point actually. Where's our Lemmy equivelant of r/MakeNewFriendsHere?

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Right? Maybe we should just create it.

[–] Engineer@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Hey, I'm also in engineering! What sort of chemical engineering you interested in? I'm in aerospace doing design and strength stuff.

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 11 points 1 day ago

Username checks out lol

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh wow that's pretty cool! Wanna chat?

[–] Engineer@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah! I'll DM.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee -4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Leni here. I'll be your friend, as well as others I know. Also am someone from uni.