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[โ€“] Oberyn@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Passive aggressive emoji usage

[โ€“] phpinjected@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] Shape4985@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] thepreciousboar@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago

Incoherence, and it's particuarly bad when I realize i'm being incoherent

[โ€“] trd@feddit.nu 4 points 1 week ago

Incompetence

[โ€“] Zeusz13@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Parents refusing to notice their children's needs

[โ€“] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's a real problem, but I hate filler words. "Um uh hmm" just immediately makes me want to cover my ears and tune out the conversation. It's at a level where I've seriously considered vocal therapy to make certain I never do them anymore, but that doesn't really solve the issue since nearly everyone ends up using them. I just have to try and let go of the obsession, but it's so hard.

[โ€“] guy@piefed.social 4 points 1 week ago

That's sad to hear, especially since filler words are a vital part of our language

[โ€“] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Starch. This limits what I can eat. Unfortunately I didn't know this growing up, so I ate a pretty carb heavy diet which caused health issues which caused me to be grouchy a lot. Took until I nearly 40 to figure out that I wasn't just an unstable asshole.

[โ€“] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Lies and deceit.

I feel like I'm being played for a fool by not telling me the truth and wanting to sugar coat it or something. I can't stand it whoever it comes from, be it a stranger or my own mother.

[โ€“] terminal@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

Intolerance.

Thanks karl popper.

[โ€“] atan@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

Dithering... Shit or get off the pot.

[โ€“] frostysauce@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

People unable to pick up sarcasm through text.

[โ€“] Hyphlosion@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Alcohol Weed Lactose

Yeah Iโ€™m no fun.

_Everything _ for some reason I am super sensitive to drugs of nearly any kind

[โ€“] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

People who lack self discipline.

[โ€“] legionguy@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

car horn sounds and girls voice specially screeming

[โ€“] Noodle07@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

As my mom beautifully puts it : "I'm racist against idiots"

[โ€“] RecipeForHate1@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[โ€“] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I believe the word you're looking for is anthropocentrism

[โ€“] babyincubi@beehaw.org 1 points 1 week ago

Centrism, fence-sitting, or like we say where i live "ser un tibio de mierda". If you're gonna believe something, do it fully and own up to it.

[โ€“] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 0 points 1 week ago

Not trying to contact people when they leave, they need contact unless they explicitly say they need time

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