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[–] Sarmyth@lemmy.world 42 points 6 days ago (5 children)

I think the widespread use of chat clients and services like slack in large companies has changed this norm.

There was a time where it would be unprofessional, but now its a solution to the communication flaw inherent in written messages. Conveying emotion.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 11 points 6 days ago

My spouse works fairly high up at one of the evil tech giants and their team was very excited to be working with some dude who had written a computer language (I don’t remember the details) and someone had written him this very professional document requesting he read it and assess it, his only response to this very carefully prepared document was a “👍🏻” and literally nothing else lol, everyone was low key offended but no one said anything to him because they all basically considered him a celebrity

[–] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 days ago

I work for a MSP, and we have a chat for "account managers", a non technical position where they interact with the clients upper management, and tell them stuff we as techs shouldn't (hard no's, complaints, large project recommendations etc).

That chat is full of gifs, jokes, emoticons and some memes. I feel like the weird one not feeling comfortable doing that there. I do all that stuff too, but usually in smaller more private chats.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

Very well said.

Gonna use this argument anytime a boomer breaths.

[–] HexadecimalSky@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Ill message my boss and get a emoticon response sometimes, usually for simple yes or okay responses, and they'll send out meme for some regular announcements like timesheets or stuff

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

I use the facepalm one all the time at work.

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 36 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

"I've never been promoted for my professionalism, but I've been promoted countless times for my skill. If you'd rather lose out on the best employee you may ever have because of a smiley face, I'm not sure this environment would be a good fit for me anyway."

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 31 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Am I the only one who sends GIFs in work chats?

I mean I won't send one to a VP but I can send them to peers, supervisors, managers, department heads. No issues.

Hell people throw down happy Monday memes around.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 13 points 6 days ago (1 children)

GIFs are just about the best thing about moving from Skype to Teams for work. I think if they took them from us there'd be an uproar tbh.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Microsoft bought giphy I think so they know what's up. That's why they got a GIF button now.

[–] aka@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I can't find anywhere that says Microsoft has owned Giphy.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Meta bought giphy. I got it twisted

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 16 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I worked at a mid sized company, we used slack and used gifs and memes and had thousands of custom emojis uploaded.

Got purchased by a mega Corp, now use Teams, we've been slowly corrupting them with smileys, memes, gifs, etc. It's been good.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Same thing happened to us but we've completed the corruption already.

Important meetings are meme/gif free but daily meetings and team chats are fully corrupted. It's more of a work culture thing. Less stuffy.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago

Yeah it's been a couple years now and it's clear we're won lol. Our last town hall had a game where you spam gifs in the chat :P would have been unthinkable a couple years ago. They literally had gifs turned off before we got there.

[–] ReachMinusOne@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I'm afraid I'm about to go through this exact same thing. Company currently uses Slack, with hundreds of custom emojis and our own shitposting channel. We got bought out by a massive international conglomerate several months ago, and ultimately the plan is to move everything over to Microsoft, which is what they use throughout their organization.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

Teams has improved a lot in the past couple years since I was forced to move over, and Microsoft power automate is legitimately really powerful if you're interested in automation.

Good luck with the corporate culture though, it really sucks.

[–] lud@lemm.ee 1 points 6 days ago

You can add custom emojis in teams now 🙂

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 4 points 6 days ago

Amateurs, I share scat porn on slack.

[–] Rogueostrich@lemmy.world -3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I wish you were not gonna lie my coworkers are not my friends and I don't want to see their memes or other goofy business, I left a group message the other day because someone replied to something I said with a gif I find it rude in a professional setting.

[–] lud@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Well, it's good that you left the group chat then. That's a win win. You don't have to see GIFs and they don't have to deal with a huge pessimist.

[–] Rogueostrich@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

It's not pessimistic to not want to be involved with coworkers in an unprofessional manner, i said a form of communication was inappropriate for text messaging instead of an email because it was too long and some turd sends a GIF back of some guy going pshh flapping his hand off in my mind he's an unprofessional jackass.

if I'm working I'm not there to see your stupid bullshit I'm there to make money and go back to my own stupid bullshit.

[–] lud@lemm.ee 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Well some of us can have some fun while working.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

I use memes when appropriate with the right people.

I helped out a peer and they thanked me. Thumbs up gif.

Someone closed out a tough ticket. Congrats gif.

I finished a tough ticket. Frodo its done in group chat.

Servers are down. No memes. How can I help.

Sadly some people don't have good social etiquette. But I use my memes and people like it.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago

dude it's not a eulogy. how are people still bitching about smiley faces especially in conversations like this. fucking inhuman corporate robot piece of 💩

[–] Gismonda@lemmy.world 162 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Weird … I was told the exact same thing by my boss.

So I stopped using emojis, and then she told me that my messages were “passive-aggressive” or “rude”

And I told her that’s why people use emojis, to add the nuance that is missing because we aren’t communicating face-to-face 🤷‍♀️

[–] zerofk@lemm.ee 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Emoji are fine, but I hate when people follow every other word with one. You know the type: every “I see” is followed by 👀, they can’t mention a house without 🏠, and God help you if they start talking about their pet, because there’s more pictures of animals, hearts, and stars than words.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 131 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Per my previous email: 🍆

[–] 0x0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 43 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I worked with someone once who would write the most condescending chat messages and finish them off with a smiley face. I think he truly didn't understand that the smiley made it worse. Regardless of the lack of social awareness, his superiority complex was annoying.

[–] XnxCuX@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

I exclusively only use smileys sarcastically in work emails to shitty managers. He knew.

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[–] RedSnt@feddit.dk 80 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

This is why I hate people. You never know when you'll meet one of these dumb dumbs that think life is a competition to seem the most adult. They're the idiots that need to have prefaces saying shit like "the video game industry is actually bigger than the music and movie industry combined" when reading financial times. Get stuffed.

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[–] noride@lemm.ee 78 points 1 week ago (6 children)

My workplace is somewhat stuffy but I've still never seen anyone take issue with a smiley or similar emoji in an email. Tone is hard to assess over text, a simple :) goes a long way sometimes.

[–] NoForwardslashS@sopuli.xyz 57 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm afraid I have to give you your notice, as your position is no longer a priority for the company 😢

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[–] Unlearned9545@lemmy.world 65 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I disabled to use of emojis when I set up our companies internal wiki for SOP thinking that wasn't appropriate for technical documentation, but my boss asked me to turn them back on because he wanted to use them. I begrudgingly obliged.

Turns out he didn't want to use smileies, just the icons for quickly identifying bullet points like ⛔‼️✅❕or even 🌐🖨️

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 58 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A decade ago, I was annoyed by emojis. Hate that shit.

But then some PM decorated all the knowledge base page titles in our Confluence to have a icon in the front to visually group the goal.

And that's when I learned how valuable a good emoji can be.

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[–] recklessengagement@lemmy.world 41 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

Emojis are fine, but I still prefer emoticons - I feel like they have more flair ^ _ ^

[–] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago

Depending on the venue, I end up viewing emotions as a passive indicator of "Internet tenure". O⁠_⁠o Conveys that someone has been on the Internet longer than 🤨 usage. (In some cases)

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