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Mildly Infuriating

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She literally called me at the time of the appointment to tell me she can't see me. She was so apologetic, but was like "I absolutely can treat you, but I'm not allowed by your insurance". Fuck this country.

Update: I went to urgent care. Before leaving home, I called to be sure they would accept my insurance (Aetna). They said yes.. After arriving for my appointment, they told me they do not accept my insurance. I will simply leave without paying.

Final Update: I can understand that that differences in physical biology demand different attention. That's not what I'm complaining about. It's the way it's set up. I was told that at my appointment. Why not just refer me to a specialist? The website could've even just referred me to urgent care (yes, my insurance requires a primary care physician's referral for urgent care, according to the urgent care facility). But, no, their goal is to obfuscate and irritate until the patient gives you and pays out-of-pocket.

I was able to receive care at a cost I could not afford. I won't discuss what I had to do to "find" the money to pay for care and prescriptions. That being said, the condition I was diagnosed with was more serious than a simple infection, and I'm glad that I saw a doctor. I need further treatment and just hope I can get insurance to cover any of it.

If you're an American reading this, please consider ways to get involved in organizing in support of Medicare For All in your community. Here is one resource I have found. We don't need to live like this. We deserve better. Stay safe and healthy, friends.

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[–] LostCause@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

So wtf, they want you to let it get worse until that infection spreads to kidneys or something and then pay 100x the amount to an emergency room? How does that make sense for their profits anyway?

Treatment is just a test to confirm and some antibiotics I think. Hope you can find some other way to get treated.

[–] curiosityLynx@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

Mildly infuriating?

[–] Rhabuko@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's so fucked up! I'm sorry OP.

[–] throwaway38575061@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Thank you ❤️

[–] Vex_Detrause@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

You need to prove that you have a urinary tract let alone the infection. Show them your urinary tract! /s

[–] Guadin@k.fe.derate.me 2 points 2 years ago

Man that is bad. And I must say there are more countries moving that way. You can get cheaper insurance but then you need to go to the connected health institutes and otherwise they won't pay. Fuck that, I want to choose where I get my care. I don't want health insurance providers to have a say in how my doctor treats me (but they do, unfortunately).

[–] Aux@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (7 children)

That moment when it's better to live in Russia than in US...

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[–] Alpagu@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (9 children)

I'm living in Turkey. All health care is free.

[–] akira@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

but if you live in turkey you get hate for being gay

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[–] Totonyus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] Midnitte@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

It's a good thing we have private insurance in the US. You have the freedom of choice! (/s)

Can you visit a general practitioner for treatment? It'll take a lot longer... but I would imagine they can give a prescription - even if it's not covered.

[–] itsjustxan@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

This country is ripe for a revolution.

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[–] iceycake@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Have you try other online services (no insurance need) like GoodRX care? I don’t see you need 16 or older for UTI in their options.

[–] goldenbug@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I am sorry this is happening to you. I cannot even phantom why this is the case, anyone could please explain to me why UTIs are not covered for men?

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[–] citsuah@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

do get it treated OP, however one does that in that joke of a country you're unfortunate enough to live in. Do know that unlike female UTIs which are relatively common and often uncomplicated if treated, male UTIs are not common and CAN herald some other underlying pathologies (such as urinary stones, blockages, anatomical problems etc) which should be properly investigated. So do go see a doctor if you're able to.

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