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Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I'm intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don't know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn't care less about NSFW stuff, I don't search for it specifically, but my day won't be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn't be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

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They don't want to defederate from any other instance so I can decide if I don't want to view anything.

I'm a M-L and I love memes. Hexbear would be a close #2. Lol

[โ€“] zewm@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 year ago

I was on lemmy.world at first but it's constantly down so I started searching for a new instance. I fell in love with the lemmy.zip color theme.

I vape nicotine (former smoker) and I smoke weed. Not as much as I used to, but I had difficulty finding an instance with personal interest, so the one I am on seemed good.

[โ€“] deathbird@mander.xyz 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I picked my instance because it wasn't too big or too small, and it federates with basically everyone.

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gotta stand with fellow code monkeys

[โ€“] MrSebSin@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I started on Lemmy World, because I could. I didnโ€™t truly get the decentralized nature of the Fediverse, so I went with a larger instance thinking that was best for longevity.

Now that I understand how things work, Iโ€™ve picked up a few more accounts/instances (including one on Kbin) as backups and currently use Lemm.ee as my main account.

Ultimately, I would like to start my own instance for me and my family.

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[โ€“] shaked_coffee@feddit.it 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

For me the choice was easy: I was already into the fediverse thanks to Mastodon and then (before all the reddit api drama) some lovely people I had already heard about decided to spin up a general purpose Italian Lemmy instance, and so far I couldn't be happier for my experience here.

Maybe I was just lucky but what I would suggest is try to see if there is a small/medium sized instance of your university/city/country as I think they are the ones that works our best (not just for Lemmy but for the fediverse in general)

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[โ€“] lemmy@acqrs.co.uk 7 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] dQw4w9WgXcQ@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

By selecting something from the top of the list at the time, I ended up on vlemmy.net. Then that went down after a few days. So I created an account on lemmy.world. With that instance, everything seemed buggy, and I was constantly logged out and unable to load my account.

So I made an account ln whatever I'm on now.

To me, this seems like a big drawback for lemmy. Creating an account doesn't guarantee any persistence unless you host your own instance. So the bar is not low for new users.

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[โ€“] eleanor@social.hamington.net 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I joined Beehaw first because I like their philosophy, the admins seem pretty level headed, and they're decently large. But they defederated from/were never federated with a couple of instances that I was interested in, so I made my own instance and am here now.

[โ€“] notnotmike@programming.dev 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I did something similar with Beehaw, but found that Lemmy was making my Nas so much louder because of all the data it was writing to disk. So I decided to join programming.dev instead. Some day I want to host my own again but it's on hold for now

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[โ€“] Computerchairgeneral@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm on Kbin.social because it was being recommended a lot when all the Reddit stuff was happening and there weren't any hoops to jump through when signing up.

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[โ€“] CharAhNalaar@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I joined lemmy.world because it was the biggest.

Defederation didn't seem to be an issue at first, though I would like to know what exactly I'm missing out on (within reason... Not a fan of bigotry) But the performance issues are making me wonder if I should switch.

EDIT: I do kind of want to be on an instance that federates with both lemmy.world and beehaw. Any recommendations?

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[โ€“] flameguy21@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I was on world but people are assholes and kept ddos-ing it and heard lemm.ee was pretty good. Can confirm lemm.ee is pretty good. Bonus: beehaw doesn't defederate lemm.ee and their communities are pretty cool.

[โ€“] jack@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can someone go tell beehaw to federate with Hexbear

[โ€“] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

I think it would be an uphill battle, since they were very loud about it and the accusations they were making against hexbear to justify it. Nonetheless, I think people from other instances telling them to reverse the decision would be good.

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[โ€“] oolong@lemmings.world 7 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I have joined several instances and all have their pros and cons, but I'll plug the most recent one (lemmings.world) because it checked all of these boxes for me:

  • Federated with both lemmy.world and beehaw.org
  • Not federated with certain more problematic instances
  • Stable/good uptime record
  • Upvotes/downvotes, community creation and image uploads enabled
  • I liked the name
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[โ€“] GreneArwe@reddthat.com 6 points 1 year ago

Originally started out on Beehaw due to the name. I like bees. I like cowboys. Win-win. Then they defederated from the two biggest instances, and I lost out on a lot of great communities.

Ended up switching to Reddthat since the name / URL was easy for my ADHD brain to remember and didnโ€™t require typing a novel to join.

Looked for communists, found communists, stayed for communism.

[โ€“] loaf@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Iโ€™m just a sh.ithead.

Seriously though, the community is awesome, love the name, and TheDude abides.

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[โ€“] nonearther@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

No email requirement

[โ€“] Rottcodd@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

It depends on the instance - I have multiple accounts.

Kbin.social because I like the kbin software better than the lemmy software, and because Ernest is awesome.

Lemmy.world because it's definitive (when it's up).

Lemmy.one because it requires people to not be assholes.

Lemmy.ninja because the admins somehow manage to be both diligent and goofy, and because ninjas are cool.

[โ€“] DosDude@retrolemmy.com 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I made it. I like retro games. That's it.

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[โ€“] 18107@aussie.zone 6 points 1 year ago

It was nearby.

[โ€“] IronKrill@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

Because Canada, woo! My definitely not picked on a whim choice has yet to fail me though, I haven't personally experienced any downtime or slowdowns and I like the community overall.

[โ€“] Icarius@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly picked it just for the name alone. Scrolled through a giant list and was the first to give me a good chuckle.

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[โ€“] Crl@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

vlemmy.net went away and lemmy.world seemed pretty active so here we are. I'm also set up on sh.itjust.works because I love the name of it.

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