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[–] mim@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 year ago

Decided to go with a smaller instance from the start, as I think we can all see what happens when one entity holds too much power within an ecosystem.

Also wanted to go with one that was not defederated from other instances (nor defederating others as well). Checked a bunch of lists, and decided to go with my current one.

[–] writerlygal@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I chose lemm.ee because it came highly recommended and rightfully so. Great management and great communities too

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[–] Kuchenchen@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm learning german so while i was looking for some german speaking communities. They're surprisingly big and keep growing.

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[–] guybrush@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Idk, because why not Estonia.

[–] hotwarioinyourarea@slrpnk.net 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm a dirty hippy and slrpnk.net seemed like a server for other dirty hippies

[–] ZTabs@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

I'm with the boys on lemm.ee !

[–] tzutoo@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

It doesn't really matter actually, but I would prefer to stay on the one with more members as it will probably last longer than other instances

[–] lodion@aussie.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wanted an instance specifically for Australians... so I made one πŸ˜€

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[–] Jean_le_Flambeur@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The Admin of my instance (discuss.tchncs.de) is tolerant but understands the tolerance paradox. (Defderated with exploding heads but not every left instance - doesn't fall for false balance.

Also he was fast with approving new accounts.

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I chose Aussie.zone cause I'm out of touch with my own country so seeing the news here is nice and cause I thought it would be easier to join a country instance.

Also optional email and I know I could make a temp email but I can't be bothered.

[–] Lotsen@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

A subreddit I was in linked their lemmy community and it was on dbzer0 so I created a account on there and called it a day.

[–] primaryuser@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Wanted to be on a reasonably big instance, since I figure they're more likely to stick around in the long run. Lemmy.ml was closed for registration at the time (might still be, idk), and plus I have some disagreements with the admins, so I chose lemmy.world. I'm pretty happy here and don't see a reason to change personally, although the server's getting pretty overloaded recently so we'll see.

[–] Fenzik@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I saw people complaining that the admins were communists and I was like dope, I love those guys.

Plus healthy number of users (maybe too many actually) and local communities

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[–] creation7758@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

It doesn't but I thought it did

[–] TheSacredOne@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Tried lemmy.world as a reddit refugee but with the performance issues they're experiencing, quickly went looking for another instance with better performance and a decent amount of extra content. Lemmy.ml is blocked at work (.ml TLD is freenom so prone to abuse) and registration is closed anyway, so decided on lemm.ee.

Far better speed, a good amount of content locally, and few/no errors at the moment.

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[–] Ranessin@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

Biggest German server and good community.

[–] nychtelios@rlyeh.icu 4 points 1 year ago

I am hosting it lol

[–] necrophagist@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

First I made one on ml. Then I made one on kbin because everyone said ml was a bunch of tankies and had some shady shit going on. Then none of the apps supported kbin so now I made one on world. Lol and I have no idea which one between world and ml I'm even posting from right now since I'm logged into both on liftoff

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[–] MrFunnyMoustache@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I googled Lemmy and signed up to the first result, not knowing what instances were back then.

[–] spamspeicher@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

Es ist Deutschland hier!

Its status on federation with problematic instances.

[–] Firipu@startrek.website 4 points 1 year ago

Made one on lemmy.world but it's crumbling under the pressure as we speak. Tried a local one, but it has like 5 users. Don't trust it to live long enough. So started using the star trek one, because star trek. Not as if you'd need any other reason

[–] zerbey@infosec.pub 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Bouncing between several since lemmy.world is being hammered right now, I'm sure once the dust settles things will calm down. Right now I'm on infosec.pub because it was recommended to me as a smaller server. It really doesn't matter so long as whatever you're on communicates with everyone else.

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[–] tunetardis@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I read some comments that lemmy.ca was well run to the extent that it was being recommended even by non-Canadians. Being Canadian myself, that was good enough for me.

It's a friendly instance and is well-run. The admin manually approved registrations which kept them safe from the great bot invasion and is now upgrading the server and bringing on more admins.

[–] MrGerrit@feddit.nl 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have a few now just to test it out. I want to use feddit.nl as my standard server, but I just haven't fully figured out how this all works.

Like for example I'm on lemmy.world and subscribe to something, that channel/sub doesn't seem to appear on feddit.nl. there can be a channel with the same name but it isn't the one I subscribed to.

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[–] LeHappStick@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

It has the word world in the name, sounds bigger.

[–] Hox@vlemmy.net 3 points 1 year ago

I chose vlemmy.net cause it seemed neutral, general, and was one of the recommended ones. So far so good.

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well, I started my instance so it only makes sense that its also my home!

As for why I started an instance, I've always liked self-hosting stuff as its been one of the best ways I learn how stuff on the internet works, even more than I have learnt from doing some programming in my spare time. So it was an obvious move for me since I wanted to know more about how ActivityPub worked.

Originally I wasn't really planning on having open registration on my instance (otherwise I would've picked a better domain name, a bit late for that now) however as I saw Lemmy pick up pace, and the larger servers were starting to have issues, I figured that the best way I could give back was at least offer to share the load.

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[–] Owell1984@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

It's the first one I found and many others were filled with germans and I said "Nein"

[–] TheCatfish@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

β€’Lemmy.ml - Signed up here first, was recommended to it as a general place to sign up to

β€’Lemmy.blahaj.zone - Egg memes, blΓ₯haj memes, just memes

β€’Lemmy.world - Handy for extra world news communities

β€’Lemmynsfw.com - Do I need to explain. This is under a different name, but I've kinda used that name over on the other place and I'm slowly bringing my content over (plus new stuff)

I only use one and four regularly

[–] finn_der_mensch@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You know that you can follow your desired communities from other servers, all with e.g. the lemmy.ml account?

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[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Trans, pan, 196, and Blahaj is friend.

[–] SgtSilverLining@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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A friend owns it and it has a funny domain. Bonus of it being smaller is that it didn't have any performance issues yesterday/today.

[–] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 1 year ago

I run my own private instance so I am in control over my own data.

Tbh, I don’t think it matters what server you choose. Lemmy.world, Lemmy.ml, and Beehaw seem to be the big ones so picking a server that federates with those would be ideal.

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