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Anon is stuck in a rut (sh.itjust.works)
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[-] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

It surely gets better if you can make the necessary changes to your life to improve this.

I never hear anyone talk like this who doesn't live in the suburbs with a huge commute. I live in a city and can get to work in 15 minutes without a car.

My schedule is:

  • 6:00am: Wake up, shower, eat breakfast, get dressed.
  • 6:45am: Leave for work.
  • 7:00am: Arrive at work.
  • 12:00pm: Lunch hour.
  • 4:00pm: Leave work.
  • 4:15pm: Arrive home and unwind.
  • 5:00pm: Workout.
  • 5:30pm: Prepare Dinner.
  • 6:15pm: Eat Dinner.
  • 6:45: Clean up kitchen and other parts of home.
  • 7:00pm: Movies, Video Games, Social Time, Sex Time.
  • 10:00pm: Go to bed

That gives me a full 6 hours between finishing work and going to bed. If I choose an easy dinner, I hardly have to do anything less than fun after work, and I work in a cool part of town so I don't actually have to go commute anywhere. I can be drinking at a bar within 5 minutes of clocking out, and I don't have to drive home. Any other errands I make in a week are within walking distance of my home or work.

Before I moved, my schedule was:

  • 5:45am: Wake up, shower, eat breakfast, get dressed.
  • 6:30am: Leave for work.
  • 8:00am: Arrive at work.
  • 12:00pm: Lunch hour.
  • 5:00pm: Leave work.
  • 6:30pm: Arrive home and unwind.
  • 7:00pm: Prepare Dinner.
  • 7:45pm: Eat Dinner.
  • 8:15pm: Clean up kitchen and other parts of home.
  • 8:30pm: Movies, Video Games, Social Time, Sex Time.
  • 9:45pm: Go to bed

So that gave me an entire 3.25 hours after getting home, giving me no time to fit a workout in without giving up other leisure activities. This doesn't even factor in that everywhere else I needed to run errands was a 15-30 minute drive away.

[-] SwampYankee@mander.xyz 3 points 5 months ago

I've had some pretty long commutes in the past because my work location changes every few years. I enjoy the work, though, so that helps, but I've still been feeling the OP lately. I'm in my late 30s and I don't have kids and "fun" doesn't really do it for me anymore. More and more I need to feel like I'm doing something worthwhile instead of aimless hedonism. I'll figure it out, though, it's just time to make some, as you say, necessary changes again.

[-] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 2 points 5 months ago

Making sure you have time is important. My schedule breakdown isn't really the blueprint of my life. I belong to social groups, and I volunteer. I have hobbies and projects that I work on.

If you don't have enough unstructured time, you'll never have the opportunity to build structure around it.

[-] Justas@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 months ago

The largest predictor of divorce is a commute longer than 45 minutes.

[-] fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 0 points 5 months ago

At first it looked like Photoshop, and I know it is, but I just realised... it's that dude from that double suicide photo, isn't it? Russian dude and his girlfriend?

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