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[–] srestegosaurio@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I used to be on ml when I first joined lemmy because I did know better, now I love my instance.

[–] Cataphract@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Do you really love or have any feeling towards your instance? I think of it more like an e-mail address than a "name" for like an apartment building or mascots/team name (probably why these posts confuse the shit out of me). My first instance had connection issues/downtime so I switched to .ml. Almost switched from them like a month ago because of slow loading times but seems to be better the past couple of weeks (this is the basics of html, I shouldn't have to "watch" it load).

I just always scroll on All (active), and sometimes subscribed if I'm feeling in the mood so I never even consider my instance unless something technical or posts like this come up. I have a couple of mobile devices that I'm never logged into that I'll pop up lemmy on from different instances (.world, .ee, etc), I actually am less likely to use an instance that advocates heavy defederation.

I don't mean it in a parasocial relationship way or anything. I just like the vibe here and think the admin is cool.

Also, the more decentralised the network is the better for everyone involved.