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[–] fuzzzerd@programming.dev 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Curious what you do that 100/hr isn't a good use of time, because that sounds like something I'd like to learn about.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I'm a programmer and I make a pretty decent salary, enough to support my family and weather any emergencies.

The free time I have, I would do these in this order:

  1. Hang out with my wife and kids
  2. Chill out with recreational things like gaming
  3. Continue to study, read books and take online courses, contribute to open-source and build applications for startups
  4. Convert that free time to $100/hr

Notice that trying to make MORE money is at the bottom for me.

And if you ARE money driven, working hourly isn't how most people became rich. They usually win the lottery by doing a hobby that ended up paying dividends. Like building a app and getting bought out, or collecting Pokemon cards or something.

[–] fuzzzerd@programming.dev 6 points 1 day ago

Fair response. I had assumed for many people 100/hr would replace their primary job and thus be worth the trade. If were talking measure time after your primary job, I certainly understand valuing that time even higher than your hourly rate at said job.

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You sound like someone who has never had to chose between food or rent

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 2 points 7 hours ago

I did when I was growing up all the way to when I graduated.

I spent the past 15 years to ensure I never had to do that again.

But fuck me right?

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And his or her opinion is as valid as the rest. What's your point

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That they sound like someone who has never had to choose between food or rent... You can usually tell by the way there's a certain kind of innocence in the way they speak about stuff like personal finance. I could be wrong though. Anyways, I think that's relevant information to disclose when sharing financial insight anonymously online.

[–] die444die@lemmy.world 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I have had to make that choice and now that I’m no longer in that situation, I agree with everything he wrote. Now that I’m able to cover my expenses and have some savings, I’m fairly comfortable, and the desire to make more money has faded away. There’s a lot of things I prioritize over more money.

[–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

Adding a +1 to this, same situation. For the longest time, I had to keep a running totall in my head, down to the cent, of the few things I put in the supermarket cart to make sure I had money to pay for them.

Life has been kind, and gradually things got better and when it sunk in that I was OK was when I realized that at some point I had stopped counting the cents.

Nowadays I treasure my time and my wellbeing more than money - I won't do something that takes away from that, even if pays more.

Clearly there's people who won't stop at a billion dollars, but for me, the freedom of adding whatever I want to my cart without having to think if I can afford it is all I need to live a happy life.