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Now that is the case, I totally agree.
3 months ago, things were very different. Also, I am talking specifically on .world. That's the instance where most of my drama came from
And for the record, there are lots of people leaving .world for that very reason now. It's become a very toxic pro-censorship instance and people are leaving.
My post/comment history is public, as are the modlogs. If you're bored enough, feel free to look at my comments and the replies I'd get. You'll see for yourself it's because people thought my advocating for third party was treason: https://lemmy.world/u/UniversalMonk
What are your theories for the "hatred"? If you find any samples of posts/commetns that are offensive, please post them.
Because honestly I haven't gotten much drama since the election, because to your point, lots of people are pro third-party now. Most of the people who continue to organize for my ban always bring up the .world drama from 3 months ago before the election, and they are usually from there.
.world Biden/Harris supporters have a very long memory and hold grudges! lolol
Also, I haven't been banned from any instances since the election. Yet I haven't changed my stance or attitude at all. So I think that's pretty telling.
Thanks, friend!