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[–] Driftking@lemmy.ml 34 points 1 year ago (3 children)

For the purpose of disclosure. I just cant live with myself if I do not tell prospective partners when they ask. I know there is a difference between avoidance and lying, however, I value honesty. Not implying that you are not or should thinknas I do

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 56 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Last year I shit myself while trying to open my door and get to the bathroom.

I dropped my keys while I was trying to unlock the door and ended up with shit in my shoes that I had to throw away.

I never bring that up on dates.

[–] Bluehood380@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This story made my panties wet.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hopefully it’s not shit.

[–] Guntrigger@feddit.ch 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's a surprising stance coming from SatansMaggotyCumFart

Okay, Gunt Rigger.

[–] 3ntranced@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

That's a third date story

[–] Driftking@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

What an amecdote. Thank you for lightening my mind lol

[–] HellAwaits@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get your point, but I think that's a bit of a false equivalence. You don't tell others of stuff like this likely because it's embarrassing, but what if someone isn't embarrassed of using sex services? Is it really the same thing then?

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why would I be embarrassed about that story?

I share it with my friends because it’s fucking hilarious.

[–] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hope I never meet you or your friends.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did this comment make your life any fuller or better in any way?

[–] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does your existence do that for any other persons besides your accomplices?

Enjoy your existence, I’ll enjoy mine.

Have a nice day.

[–] ChrisLicht@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You have an over-sharing problem.

[–] DrQuint@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can't agree. I think people should have a friendship as strong as their romance.

[–] ChrisLicht@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

Some things are not made to be shared. You are two different people. Leave a little mystery.

I’ve been with my partner for 27 years, so have a bit of experience to draw from.

[–] jayemar@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

The fact that you need to "disclose" this makes it sound like you yourself see an issue with it