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Unfortunately if you're high-masking they usually disagree with you and say you can't possibly be autistic.
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I'm still traumatised by getting that reaction from my friends the first time I told them about my diagnosis. A decade and a half later and I still have imposter syndrome about my own diagnosis.
Maybe the doctors were wrong and my friends were right all along? Maybe I'm actually just a worthless, lazy piece of shit?
If it helps, like often attracts like. My diagnosis was delayed because my wife insisted I was normal. It turns out we both have ADHD and autism. 🤷♂️ Also, an impressive number of our friend have now been diagnosed as various neurodiversities. It set off a bit of a chain reaction.
The way you should think about it is that you were masking really well, which is hard!
That is actually a good perspective. Thank you.
I've only recently got diagnosed and I've been very selective on who I tell it. So far, only my dad and current gf know. The real irony is that my ex, a psychologist, never raised a suspicion, not even as a joke, that I might be one.
And then proceed to use two data points to extrapolate your entire history in their heads, and conclude that the issue is really [something irrelevant].
I wish someone would say that to me
Although I don't go around sharing that I'm Autistic. That seems like over sharing to me