Yes, I also question society, and that is what I'm getting at. The society we have built actively encourages behaviour like this - we're built around a zero sum game theory of success, where one person's loss is another's gain. Hyper individualistic ideology has eroded communities into pure atomised subjects with no connection to each other. We are taught and forced to only think of only ourselves, better only ourselves, further only our own careers, because any moment you take to help someone else, they are somehow "leeching" off of you. And, in a sense, they are, because of how we have set our society, economy, and political systems up. Those moments you take to help other people are moments you could be making money for yourself, or learning something for your own self improvement... And in a real sense could hurt you.