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[–] MonsieurHedge@kbin.social 77 points 1 year ago (14 children)

I have never see anything worth the hate.

You just have a very high tolerance for jackassery. You've seen plenty of evidence of hexbear hostility, i.e. the "dunk tank" that would justify not wanting to interact with hexbear users and have actively chosen to disregard it.

This is because you're kind of a jackass. Disregarding people engaging in good faith with "just trust me bro" is exactly the kind of thing people really hate hexbear users for. Not because of illegal activity or moral failing, but because they're assholes. While you may think this isn't worth de-federation, unfortunately moderators aren't some kind of legal authority, and if federating with hexbear means instance admins or community moderators need to put in triple the work to prune all the arguments and """shitposting""" hexbear users love, nobody is legally or morally required to put up with it.

It's legitimately that simple. Hexbear users are jerks and nobody wants to hang out with them, and that's enough to ban them from any given community or instance.

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 1 year ago

For anyone curious:

Source for the thread where that image comes from.

The whole thread is pretty eye opening to be honest. Especially the top comment.

[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Best point I've read made here.

I'm also probably kind if a jackass, because hex bear doesn't bother me. Would I appreciate a civil conversation to better understand their POV? Totally. Will that happen? No. So I just don't interact. The fierce protection of LGBTQ communities is something I appreciate however.

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (7 children)

The fierce protection of LGBTQ communities is something I appreciate however.

It's not really genuine though. They lightly elevate trump above all other presidents despite his history of attacking LGBTQ rights: https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/09/trumps-record-lgbtq-rights-vile-moment-took-office-kept-list/

It's just a political angle to get support from people who feel isolated away from other political movements.

[–] mycorrhiza@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (17 children)

Here FaeDrifter is again saying this shit.

A HUGE PORTION OF HEXBEAR IS TRANS. OVER HALF THE MODS ARE TRANS. THIS HAS BEEN THE CASE FOR THREE YEARS PRIOR TO FEDERATION. FAE, PEOPLE HAVE POINTED THIS OUT TO YOU BEFORE. PROBABLY MULTIPLE TIMES NOW.

See @HornyOnMain@lemmy.ml in this very thread:

https://lemmy.ml/comment/3504748

We've never "pretended to support lgbt", why would we? What would be the point of a load of alt right channers roleplaying as queer communists for years on an incredibly niche social media in the hope that eventually redditors would come to the site? And even supposing we did, and we were all just alt right types, if we'd spent years doing reading groups of queer theory together and kicking out transphobes and creating the most queer friendly space on lemmy just as an incredibly long extended bit then would the supposed communists we're impersonating even take issue with that?

Like just use some critical thinking, at this point almost half of the sites users are trans and most of the rest are queer, most new users cite our radical opposition to queerphobia as their reason for joining, what evidence is there that we lie about being queer friendly? Like just check out !traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net or !anti_cishet_aktion@hexbear.net or !transenby_liberation@hexbear.net and tell me in good faith that all these people have been lying for years about being queer

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[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Lol what, who on hexbear is elevating trump, this is a hilarious take.

Also just gonna leave this here https://observer.com/2016/10/wikileaks-reveals-dnc-elevated-trump-to-help-clinton/

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Basically the whole Hexbear most upvoted consensus was that all US presidents deserve to be executed, the DNC and GOP are the same, but Trump at least is funny, kind of authentic, and triggers the libs.

Also lol that observer article aged like fucking milk. Clinton couldn't have found a better way to self-destruct her chances at winning the election.

If you want more: https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-features/yikes-new-behind-the-scenes-book-brutalizes-the-clinton-campaign-123303/

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Can you show me where this post was on Hexbear?

Also yeah the Clinton campaign fucked itself in many ways, trump just being one that we all get to deal with on a daily basis still

[–] fushuan@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is the one: https://alexandrite.app/lemm.ee/post/5802627

The real consensus seems to be that he should be hanged just like all the other presidents, and that they find him funny because he is not as subtle as past presidents at doing the evil stuff.

The point I have seen being driven through is that they don't care to just mock people for their ideas and they really love to criticise without offering solutions besides violence and letting it all burn, which is a non-answer to most non-tankies, so there's an impasse.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just find it very funny that on one hand people say they offer no solutions but on the other hand people say they want to discuss it too much and it's exhausting, they clearly have solutions which is Marxist-Leninism, that has been made abundantly clear over and over so how can one say they offer no solutions?

[–] fushuan@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Marxist-Lenisnism is not really an answer since its not like you can change such a core design of a society overnight, and since they want it fast, their arguments tend to resolve into violence / letting it all burn (which tbh will also come with violence), and again for several people that's a non answer since they don't want violence, so there's an impasse.

For me that answer is like cool it won't happen while I'm alive so what's the point, either you tell me about something practical that people living in the situation can relate and/or act on (without violence), or I'll just answer with something like "cool, that's nice" and not contribute more since suddenly we are talking about something that's so radically overboard from the current society that it's pointless for me, and the vibe I get is that I'm not alone.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Sure it's not an answer for you but that doesn't mean it's right for you to incorrectly state they have no solutions.

I do find the Accelerationism that some on the far left push/advocate for to be a poor idea overall, I do think we need to slowly push people further left via things like social democracy and improving the lives of working class people via more social programs of that nature to be a better alternative, even though it will definitely take more time.

The problem is capitalism and the powers that be are constantly fighting against ANY progress on that front and are doing a damn good job of convincing people to fight against their own interests via various forms of propaganda.

On the other hand we're having a revival of unions like I've never seen in our country before, so it's not like there is no hope that things can improve, just the overall situation we find ourselves in makes it really easy for people to fall into more extreme views and apathy or anger about the system we're currently living in. I think a Marxist/leninists/left viewpoint is miles above the fascist/nationalistic alternative

[–] fushuan@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I want to reiterate what I wrote. I said that they propose no solution besides X, that doesn't mean that they have no answer, but that their only answer is X. What I said is that their only answer is X and people find that answer problematic.

For context, I don't live in the US and I vote for the left parties of my country, which work for social programs within the status quo, not for breaking the status quo. I get that what the US has is way more extreme, but this is a global forum and there's people from countries where is not so bad. When the conversation is almost binary (you are the west or not, no middle point) and their context is not applicable to all, you get this kind of antagonism. And I get that everyone is not that way, I have had several positive and negative encounters with them, but people remember negative experiences more easily that positive ones.

That's all, have a nice day

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So them saying he's comical (which he is)but should still be executed for his crimes is a bad thing?

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Executed for the crime of being a US president, nothing to do with his policies of attacking minority groups.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lol do you really think that's what they think? They're not as shallow as you seem to think.

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm going off what gets posted and upvoted and interacted with.

It is possible there's a comment buried in there that covers Trump's record of policies and rhetoric regarding minorities, and I missed it.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So you think it's as simple as, "well they hate presidents so they want them all to die and who cares about minorities!"

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

Not "who care about minorities" but "we exploit minorities for political advantage".

IE label everyone who disagrees with you as a transphobes, place all transpobes in front of a firing squad

Also actual transphobes (such as most of Russia) gets a free pass.

It's not about fighting transphobes, it's about fighting people who aren't authoritarian communists.

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