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"... and for some reason, we're still friends." What's your story? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by spacemonkey69@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] spauldo@lemmy.ml 36 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I met a girl back when I was 18 and really hit it off with her. She told me that her ex was scary because he punched his dashboard when he was pissed off. Her ex was a guy on the fringes of our social group, so I didn't know him well.

A few days later we're in bed and my roommate lets her ex in. He confronts us with a major "WTF?" Apparently she never bothered to tell him she was leaving him.

A few weeks later, she's gone on to someone else and I'm best friends with the ex. We're still on friendly terms decades later.