my cat boy biggins has always been pretty vocal and chatty, but it's gotten pretty unbearable lately. I've started walking him on a harness at the local primary school (it's open to the public out of school hours). he's amazing to walk - super cooperative and sweet with the harness. but when we're home, he's been non-stop throwing howling tantrums when he can't go.

how do you handle this kind of behaviour? I'm ordering some earplugs and ignoring him in the meantime, but any advice would be great!

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[–] AWildMimicAppears@kbin.social 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

One of our 4 kitties started doing the same a while ago, always around 10-11am. In my experience as a cat dad of over 30 years it boils down to one of those things:

Food/Hunger/Water: Maybe his current food/water/feeding location isn't to his liking (even if he liked it before), or the feeding time is inconvenient for him
Attention/Space/Power shifts: Did any of the persons living in the household change up their routine? do any other pets/activities currently hog your attention? Did another cat start taking over a sleeping spot after you started your walks? Also, walking your cat MIGHT (thats cat specific) put stress on him because his now much larger territory cannot be defended while he's stuck at home; not all cats are cut out for walks even if they show no issues during a walk and many are happier just staying indoors
Toilets: Not necessarily (only) cleanliness, but location also in respect to feeding / water locations, and probable medical issues regarding defecation/urination (one of our boys had bladder stones a few years back - he was quite vocal after toilet visits)

In our case it was caused by one or both of the 2 things: a bit of hunger around 10am (while all other cats in the household are asleep), and one of the other cats lately started hogging my wife's attention and cuddling a lot more with her, taking time away from HIS precious headscritches-time. We fixed it giving a small amount of food at 10am (just a few bites), before he starts his behaviour, and intentionally giving him a weekend of bonus attention which shifted time back to him over during normal times too. It's very cat - and situationspecific; he is definitely our most human-oriented cat, so i'm pretty sure the attention shifts were the main culprit.

Don't be afraid to try different things, but don't change too many of them at the same time and give changes a day or two to sink in. If your cat cannot get something he likes, always offer an alternative to him! I hope you find out whats bugging your cat!

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Our orange tabby is a crier and he sometimes will talk to us until we follow him to the litter box and guard him/watch him poop. That's the last thing we check after we've tried all the things you've listed. Then it's time for meds.