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„Read the room“ triggers me to no end (discuss.tchncs.de)
submitted 1 year ago by Haui@discuss.tchncs.de to c/autism@lemmy.world
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Recently I read through the comments on a post and someone suggested OP should „just read the room“.

I have been told this since I was young and it triggers me every time.

Being unaware of social dynamics in a situation is a thing a lot of autistic people I know struggle with. „Reading the room“ in my understanding means „becoming aware of the unspoken things in a situation“.

Collins dictionary says: If you say that someone reads the room, you mean that they understand their audience and adapt what they say to suit it.

I think, although not on purpose, saying this is massively ableist and making fun of someone for „not reading the room“ is harassment imo.

Feel free to give an opposing opinion as well. I would like to hear them.

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[–] MrPoopyButthole@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm not autistic to my knowledge and it triggers me as well. People just want to be in an echo chamber because it's more comfortable and they have no space for alternative views.

[–] Haui@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

I would say certain people definitely are like this. In general, I‘m less sure as not everyone is as mean as that.