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I'm gay.

My dad is not pleased with this fact. Completely homophobic.

Half the time his homophobia doesn't even make sense.

>Fishing show on TV in the living room
>Watching it with mom and dad
>Mom: "I don't have the patience for that kind of stuff
>Me: "It doesn't feel like too long when you're out there"
>Dad: "Time flies when you're a removed."
>Go to my room

It's getting ridiculous. He goes out of his way to respond to everything I do by calling me a removed.

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[–] technologicalcaveman@kbin.social 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] UnculturedSwine@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

And you've also given your homophobic dad more reason to be homophobic

[–] DaGeek247@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

This is the most organic “what do you mean ‘you people’” I’ve ever seen.

[–] enthusiasticamoeba@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oppressed minorities are not required to be on their very best behavior in order to avoid being oppressed further. 🙄

The guy could be a serial killer and the dad would still be wrong for saying that.

[–] UnculturedSwine@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Escalating to violence is never acceptable. I really don't get what you're trying to say.

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

Violence is definitely acceptable in some situations, just not this one. Gay and traumatized is better than gay, traumatized, homeless, and possibly injured. Morality doesn’t dictate consequences.

[–] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 11 months ago

The nazis weren't defeated with words and handshakes.