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This problem is not solved by a technical solution, a backdoor.
It is solved by adding manual reporting functionality to communication systems, and then teaching children to report any such atrocities.
If they cannot decide for themselves, that only means one thing: they don't know what to do with it, or they don't trust their caretakers (parents, school personnel and similar parties), which are the actual problems to be solved.
Teaching children? Decide themselves? , wtf dude, you don’t have children right ? You can rely this massive issue on that
Obviously children should not have unsupervised access to internet connected devices until they are capable of deciding for themselves. Are you of the kind that presses youtube into their kids face to just have them calm down?
At the appropriate age, you start teaching them how to appropriately use these devices, and also to let you know if they see something wrong, and when that happens you teach them what to do in that case.
A random person has sent a message invitation? If you nor your children know them, you tell them to decline it.
Someone your kids know has sent them something inappropriate? You tell your kids that it is inappropriate, what to do with it (use the platforms report function, block the person, etc), and to report to you if it happens again.
In multiple cases it is even better if you talk about some of the dangers before the bad thing happens.
That if a website wants access to the cookies, they should always reject what is possible, and that if a website wants them to register, to ask you about it first.
Obviously, they won't know by themselves, until you teach them. As a parent this is your job, they won't do that in the school instead of you.
This all should be the most basic things for every responsible parent.