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[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 72 points 11 months ago (14 children)

I have lately been pretty convinced that 70% of pickup drivers don't actually need a truck but instead use it to compensate their insecurity about their small dicks and their fragile masculinity.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 42 points 11 months ago (5 children)

I can't wait til we as a society get over shaming small dicks. I don't have a dick but it's cringy to me when people use "small dick" as an insult like this.

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 30 points 11 months ago (2 children)

For me it's not so much trying to insult them for having a small dick, but insulting them for caring so much about having a small dick they feel the need to compensate.

Doesn't matter that their dick is small, just that they're so insecure about it they need to try and tell the world it's not true.

[–] Palkom@lemmy.world 19 points 11 months ago

Well, you're not exactly contributing to a world where that insecurity is eliminated. And besides, you'll never win an emotional debate with rational arguments.

[–] Oderus@lemmy.world -2 points 11 months ago

For me it’s not so much trying to insult them for having a small dick, but insulting them for caring so much about having a small dick they feel the need to compensate.

It's very weird that you care so much about the size of other men's penis. It's equally weird that you care what someone else drives.

Are we at a point in society where we can no longer do anything as long as some internet keyboard warrior doesn't think we should?

[–] DrQuickbeam@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Two male apes park next to each other:

"You don't fit into the sociocultural group I'm a part of, AKA THE BEST GROUP, because you are not sending the right social signals! Therefore YOU ARE NOT A VERILE MATE FOR THE HOMINID FEMALES!"

"NO! CLEARLY IT IS YOU WHO WILL NOT SEED THE NEXT GENERATION OF OFFSPRING! Based on all the information I've gotten about appropriate social signals for my gender, age, ethnicity, cult, location and socioeconomic status, I am displaying the appropriate signals! So I shall point at you and say WEIRD!"

[–] crispy_kilt@feddit.de 8 points 11 months ago

It's not about actual small dicks, it's just a symbol for insecure men

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 11 months ago

Well, I kind of agree with you, but also what I intended to say is that I think most pick up drivers don't feel masculine enough, whether it's due to a small dick or something else making them feel like they aren't "real men", so they compensate their insecurity by driving unnecessarily large cars.

Yeah, I maybe should have left the dick part out. A man can have a small penis and still not be insecure, and a man with a huge one can still be insecure about their masculinity and try to fix that insecurity with a stupid truck.

[–] noobdoomguy8658@feddit.de 2 points 11 months ago

We'll get over it when egos and genetalia lose any correlation.

Not that soon, I'm afraid.

[–] GoodEye8@lemm.ee 27 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Absolutely. All you have to ask is why they need to own a truck and they instantly get overly defensive. I'm not saying there aren't cases where you need to own truck but the vast majority of cases people bring up don't even require a truck much less owning one.

[–] skqweezy@lemm.ee 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Let's just get inspired by oats jenkins and his idea for redoing the traffic system and add a truck license, and you'll have to renew it every six months, just so they don't keep it forever

The license would be given to people that have genuine need for a vehicle like this, and don't have access to one (so if your job gives you a truck you can have it, it would have the job license on it, but then you cannot have your own license)

Otherwise they would just tell you to go fuck yourself because you don't need a truck like this

[–] arc@lemm.ee 13 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I live in Europe where trucks are fairly rare but you still see large SUVs, 4x4s and vans around. My own feeling is that certain classes of vehicles should be considered commercial for the purposes of insurance, taxation, VAT, inspection, tolls, permitted usage and everything else. The legislation already exists for commercial vehicles so extend it to these kind of vehicles.

So is someone must have a stupidly oversized vehicle purely for personal reasons they can enjoy all the bullshit and restrictions that goes with it. Doesn't stop them complying but making it more onerous to do it will take demand for these vehicles off the market entirely.

[–] DrQuickbeam@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

I agree, I think we could even go further and make vehicles of a certain size use cargo lanes on the highway.

My wife is European and lives in the US and she thinks the fact that giant SUVs and trucks can have such a vast size differential to compact cars, so that she is eye-level with their bumper, and that both use the same license and same lanes, is incredibly dangerous.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

My wife insisted on getting an SUV for her car. It's a hybrid, but it's still an SUV. I really wish she hadn't gotten it. It's too big for me, I won't drive it. I can't tell her what to do with her money, but I didn't like that she got it.

[–] crispy_kilt@feddit.de 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

She says she likes being higher off the ground and feels safer in a big car. I'm completely the opposite.

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 20 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Someone I work with has never not owned a truck, mostly because "they don't need the hassle of renting one when they need to do yardwork and buy a fridge from the store" or something.

So spending an extra $20,000-$30,000 every 10 years is totally worth those occasional trips and avoiding renting a tailer/pickup from home Depot maybe twice a year.

The $1,400 it cost me to buy a 5x10 utility trailer was money well spent. It has easily paid for itself over the years. I sold my last pickup years ago. If I need to use the trailer, it takes 5 minutes to hook it up. Having space to store it and a legit need for it are key factors here as well.

[–] bitwolf@lemmy.one 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Well at that price I'd argue it's pretty reasonable, comparable to a used Toyota.

The pick up trucks I see on sale are closer to 60-80k.

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

An extra $20-$30k, as in instead of a $30,000-$40,000 car or SUV they get a $60-$80k truck

[–] Acters@lemmy.world -1 points 11 months ago

Its a mystery how some of these people are broke af and how they would be more wealthy if they invested the cash in better stuff than blowing it all on impulsive purchases, lottery, and eating out.

[–] madcaesar@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You fools! They'll have to move some furniture 5 years from now then who'll be laughing!!!

[–] noobdoomguy8658@feddit.de 15 points 11 months ago

The small business doing the hauling, because the truck owner won't risk scratching the bed of their lovely pickup.

[–] Mummelpuffin@beehaw.org 17 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Also, with large vehicles more generally, there's this awful snowball effect where people go "I get to sit up high and it's bigger, so I feel safer! Besides, when I'm in a regular car I feel like I'm going to get crushed like a beer can."

This of course ignores that:

  1. Pedestrians are fucked
  2. With everyone buying bigger, heavier vehicles, the energy involved in most collisions is significantly greater and I doubt anyone's much safer for it. People in smaller cars just get screwed.
[–] Vespair@lemm.ee 9 points 11 months ago

Also it's an arms race. They feel safer because they're comparatively above smaller cars, but then when everyone is riding tall trucks that additional feeling of safety becomes moot as you no longer have the additional height/visibility over everyone else.

And conversely, the reason they feel less safe in smaller cars is because of the comparison to larger cars on the road. They aren't solving anything in a larger vehicle, they're just perpetuating onto others what gave them small-vehicle anxiety in the first place.

The whole concept is stupid, basically.

[–] dan1101@lemm.ee 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I have a truck to haul things. Trash, lumber, kayaks, bikes, and I've moved friends and family members at least 6 times. It's a 1995 and it spends most of its time parked though, it's not a daily driver. And I really dislike all the tall and massive trucks now. I want a bed that's actually low enough to be accessible.

[–] PolarisFx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 11 months ago

I have one because I'm 6' 7" and I don't fit comfortably in much. One of my managers is super small, but drives a lifted Ram. I have yet to see him get into it but it must be funny to see.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

70%

That seems low.

[–] Adori@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Coworker straight up admits he feels safe in his truck, he feels like he gon die if he drives a smaller car

[–] Chakravanti@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I don't even drive any vehicles. What's that supposed to mean?

[–] fred@lemmy.ml 17 points 11 months ago

Dong is infinite

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I only need a truck to haul stuff a few times a month. But that's often enough.

[–] kattenluik@feddit.nl 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Did you at least buy a smaller truck with the same bed size? or a van?

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

I drove smaller trucks for about 20 years. I actually just got a small cargo van (NV200), but still have my Colorado after the dealership offered me $100 in trade-in.

[–] OurToothbrush@lemmy.ml 0 points 11 months ago

You can just say fragile masculinity without the body shaming

[–] porkins@sh.itjust.works -1 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I have a pickup. My wife says she likes my penis size. I question your hypothesis. Today, I used it to haul fire wood and tow a broken down ATV. Yesterday, I brought kayaks up to my family cabin. It gets used. Pre-COVID, it was part of the first leg of my commute. I’m not going to have a separate vehicle just to drive to the train station. That’s absurd.

[–] TheFlamingGaze@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lol not only do you have poor reading comprehension, you have also failed to get anyone to believe what you just said. If i may provide some advice, if someone say something on the Internet that doesn't apply to you you do not have to get offened by it. Have a nice day friend.

[–] porkins@sh.itjust.works 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You:

you have poor reading comprehension

Also you:

if someone say something on the internet.. you do not have to get offened.

I don’t like trucker hate. Owning the most popular vehicle in the US doesn’t make people compensators. It makes them practical.

[–] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 2 points 11 months ago

Hauling firewood and towing an ATV with your penis is quite impressive. I think it's more proper to call it the third leg of your commute, though.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

People who need a pickup truck to haul their humungous penis are few and far between