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Another player who was at the table during the incident sent me this meme after the problem player in question (they had a history) left the group chat.

Felt like sharing it here because I'm sure more people should keep this kind of thing in mind.

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[–] EmpathicVagrant@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It’s a big case of “I don’t like myself as I am and this person with a disability accepts themself so there must me something wrong with me; I’ll take it out on them!” Style projection

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

No, it's argued agaibst because it doesn't make any sense logistically or economically.

And no, handwaving it away because "it's a fantasy setting, realism doesn't matter" is not an argument. There's a thing called suspension of disbelief, which requires a settng to be internally consistent.

[–] EmpathicVagrant@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m responding specifically to the difficulty some folks have, with understanding why a disabled person wouldn’t want to be ‘fixed’.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The issue is that in a setting with access to healing magic, you generally wouldn't suffer from a disability long enough for it to be part of your identity

[–] EmpathicVagrant@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Again, my comment wasn’t responding to the magical rpg aspect at all, just the person who doesn’t want their disability to be addressed in any way. Not a character, a real human actual person.