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What's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"? (midwest.social)

submitted 11 months ago by Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Eh.

Some people take years to learn to play guitar poorly.

Some people pick it up in a month.

Natural talent and an ability to follow directions goes a long way.

[–] Damaskox@kbin.social 5 points 11 months ago

Some people take years to learn to play guitar poorly.

I feel they're not training often enough to actually grow their skills in it.
Natural talents do help but repetition, motivation and using time on it are probably the three most important aspects in learning (new) stuff.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 1 points 11 months ago

If they play poorly after years, they don't lack talent, they lack doing the right thing. If you train the wrong thing over and over thinking it's right, you may never figure out the problem