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[-] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 2 points 10 months ago

I don't think I would want to date someone that was a virgin; they wouldn't know what they actually liked or didn't like (fantasies are significantly different from real life; the things you fantasize about may not work for you IRL), and I wouldn't be interested in trying to guide them to a conclusion that may not align with my desires at all.

I had a partner that did all of that for me, and in the end, we weren't aligned. She ultimately didn't get what she wanted, because we couldn't reach an agreement. Or, we couldn't reach an agreement until it was too late.

[-] Damaskox@kbin.social 1 points 10 months ago

Hmm. Good point.

Some of us are ready to try that stuff out too, but there are risks involved that you mentioned.

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