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submitted 1 year ago by axolittl@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I'll go first: "You have to have children when you're young," told to me when I was in my late 20s, with no desire to ever have kids, and no means to support them, by someone divorced multiple times with at least one adult child who does not speak to them.

Also: Responding to "How do I deal with this problem?" questions with "Oh, don't worry about it, it's enough that you're even thinking about it!"

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[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 38 points 1 year ago

“Get into the housing market while you can.”

My brother, mid 2005.

[-] axolittl@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago
[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Yep. Bought a residence for $500k and two years later it was worth $330K.

[-] MrMonkey@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago
[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

Sold it 5 years ago for somewhere in the 700s. So ultimately it turned out okay. But there was an extremely awkward period where I had to move out and would have sold if it wasn’t underwater. I wound up becoming a landlord for several years which I wouldn’t have chosen and felt pretty scummy but it did save me in the long run.

this post was submitted on 14 Jul 2023
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