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I'll start. Not to toot my own horn but I feel I'm at least partially responsible for getting a friend to see the value of romantic love, which she managed to find!

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[โ€“] ConstableJelly@beehaw.org 4 points 11 months ago

Pride can actually be defined as pleasure derived from an achievement. There are meadows in your community right now with a sizable population of randy toads that would otherwise have been ripped out and replaced by cheap, cookie cutter (I assume) housing, if not specifically because of your interest and contribution.

Intent needn't be part of the equation. Pleasure + achievement = pride. I'm proud of you for saving those meadows, for goodness sake take some for yourself!