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Albuquerque NM vs Columbus OH. (lemmy.ml)

submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by ULS@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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What do you think is best for a poor just coming out gay guy in his 30s trying to escape the things that come with street life. I am also more interested in older people than people my own age. Afaik there is no place for me.

I fully assume I'll end up homeless but I have to leave.

I'm open to other areas too. Definitely away from north east/new England. Preferably away from East Coast.... Preferably near the ocean or a good lake... I don't want to be stuck in crime or around homophobes.

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[–] Bldck@beehaw.org 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Columbus is a great little city in a not so great state. The local politics are quite progressive and the food and bar scene is quite nice. There was a decently sized queer community when I lived there a decade ago, and I’d expect it to continue to flourish as long as a major university is nearby.

Winters are cold. Summers are hot. The weather is what it is 🤷🏻‍♀️

[–] ULS@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 months ago

Sounds like where I live now but more open minded. I'm just hoping to at least find a better place than where I am. Even the winter in Columbus look to be half of what I'm used to... According the almanac or w/e they use.