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My mom is stubborn and doesn't forgive people who have wronged her, ever.
I just had a first-hand viewing of how difficult it made her life. She's more lonely than she should be, because she doesn't forgive or forget. It's also exhausting, being that angry all the time.
Once it clicked, I realized how exhausted all that anger I was also holding onto made me as well. I just didn't want to feel exhausted anymore.