this post was submitted on 15 Jan 2024
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I always ask two questions to guide me.
Could this help me?
Could this hurt me?
In your scenario it's no, yes, which means I wouldn't say anything.
It’s also worth asking if this could this help or hurt others.
OP has a potential opportunity to ensure other people are not subjected to what OP was subjected to.
Only rational reason would be that others may not have to deal with bad management. But honestly not a hill I’d be willing to die on.