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submitted 8 months ago by janabuggs@beehaw.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

It looks like taxes increase and any kind of post-life planning can be done with a few legal filings rather than getting married. Is there any real benefit? It kinda seems like it's just a way to trap people in relationships, probably traditionally, the woman.

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[-] Devi@kbin.social 2 points 8 months ago

I’m not sure if America works in the same way but in my country parents can take those. Like you can ask for your unmarried partner to be your NOK but if they fall into a coma or similar then the parents can take that status and block the partner from the hospital.

It doesn’t always happen obviously but it’s happened enough to make the news.

[-] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 1 points 8 months ago

Remember, news typically consists of the noteworthy, not the commonplace. It still sucks if you're the lucky one to have your privileges removed, though.

[-] Devi@kbin.social 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Absolutely. Most parents would let your partner in, but for the chance that they don’t? People can go weird with grief, I’d be worried.

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