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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] june@lemmy.world 47 points 10 months ago (2 children)

People have been asking this for as long as I’ve been on lemmy.

It depends a LOT on which instances you interact with. It’s a challenge of the fediverse in that every person has their own unique experience, some bad others good.

[–] BlanK0@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

Definitely this 👆

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

And it also depends on the communities you visit. If you enjoy verbal first fights, try politics and news. If not, there are also quite a few wholesome communities too.