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I realized a long time ago that music “sucked” because I would never open myself up to it and genuinely allow myself to find value in it.
It’s like my dad who has just decided that all rap sucks even though he has basically zero experience with it. I said the same thing until I was around 21 and almost missed all the really, really good stuff. Tai Verdes’ album “TV” is incredibly musical, for example.
What do you listen to right now?
I try my hardest to find new songs, because I don't want to be some boomer bastard.
I don't know what exactly counts as 'new', but I'm enjoying these songs a lot lately
AronChupa & Little Sis Nora - Tangaman
Little Sis Nora - MDMA
These two remind me of late 90s eurobeat shit like Aqua.
Shotgun Willy - Bombs Away
bbno$ & Yung Gravy (BABY GRAVY) - Goodness Gracious
I actually just like anything by this bbno$ guy, but I'm loving the beats and flow on these styles of rap.
Pickle - Stompin'
Makes me feel like I'm on drugs in a club back in the day.
I feel like a lot of new music is probably hidden away on shit like TikTok where I'm never going to be exposed to it because I don't use it. I have noticed Drum 'n' Bass seems to be back, but I was never a fan of that but I'm sure it's someones jam.
Just want to take a moment to point out that two of the three you seem to like because they remind you of the past.
I fully support your take on trying to find new stuff, I personally have found that many good songs that I love take a few listens for me to actually like them, some do not catch on tho.
Given that, may I suggest you add new songs you want to try in your rotation? When they come up just take some effort to listen through and take them in, think of what you like and what you don't, see if it changes.
Don't torture yourself tho
It's more that they're a genre that I haven't seen in 20 years, than that they remind me of the past. I love happy, upbeat, energetic bobby shit. Because it felt like a few years ago everything was that slooooow boring rap style by people fucked up on some sort of downers.
But y'know what I'm going to force myself to listen to everything on this page.
Okay so first 10 are done and I've enjoyed 'Miley Cyrus - Flowers', 'Troye Sivan - Rush', and 'Olivia Rodrigo - Get Him Back!'. The other 7 were pretty slow and boring for my tastes.
I got news for you, pal. The harder you try to be young and hip for the sake of being young and hip, the worse the outcome will be. You're not getting any younger, and the sooner you accept that, the better.
Instead of forcing yourself to listen to music that has the single attribute of "released less than 6 months ago" in some sad, vain attempt to relive your glory days, try exploring music based on what you actually enjoy. What artists inspire you? Who influenced them, and what genres influenced their sound? Where did the roots of that sound originate? If a song you love is a cover, who wrote or performed the original? What style of singing is it, or what kind of beat?
Listen to what you want to listen to. The most interesting conversations I have with people about music always involve the history and roots of sound, not that last hip shit my aging hipster Lyft driver subjected me to.
Nah.
Always grow, find and discover new things, and challenge yourself.
The world is full of so much, to retreat back into yourself and only live in nostalgia is not healthy.
Getting old is inevitable, being a boomer is a choice.
I don't think it's necessarily bad to keep up with what "the kids" are listening to these days, and there certainly ARE some pearls to be found occasionally, but there's also nothing wrong with enjoying the stuff you've already found to be worth your while, and introduce the younger generation to classics that are worth THEIR time, to show them that true greatness can stand the test of time and is capable of surviving whatever the current trend prescribes.
Bombs Away kinda slaps (that's how the kids say it right?).
I can definitely stand to step out of my Trance 24x7x365 musical habits...
I lived the "Pop/rap/etc is bad" life for way too long, but fwiw most of it was during childhood, so mostly repeating my environment. Made the deliberate decision to get out of that mindset and have only increased my appreciation of music. That's not to say I don't still have opinions or preferences, but I'm not willingly shutting myself away from potential goodness.
Gone down the Ren rabit hole yet?
There seemed to be two options. I’m guessing you mean the one with the song “Chalk Outlines”?
I hadn’t heard of them but I’m liking it a lot! Thanks!
I have a handful of complaints about rap, abd I generally don't enjoy it, but I no longer say it sucks outright.
Yesterday at work, I listened to Yes, SPELLLING, Black Sabbath, and the newest Martina Topley-Bird album. In the last few weeks I've bought albums by Brandi Carlisle and Talking Heads. The world is so full of great music.