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Are there a lot of women who like submissive men ? (lemm.ee)

submitted 9 months ago by DelilahBlack@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Or, would you say most women actually perfer submissive men?

To be more specific, I'm talking about men who are submissive in their role in the relationship as a partner and also sexually.

It's an interesting, I guess, maybe taboo sort of topic that I would like opinions on.

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[–] clark@midwest.social 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I will not address the sexual aspect, but the social aspect, I know I prefer my guys to be more “submissive.” That doesn’t mean I want them to be quiet and never take charge; it means I want to be the one to take the leading role, take them out for dinner, provide for them, and so on. I prefer guys who are more domestic, down to earth, more in tune with i.e. cooking (since I am not), but I would also like to take them out for shopping trips and feel good knowing I can buy this person a gift. No, this is not the norm; many people still follow and believe in the primitive gender roles as we know them. Some people who read this comment may not even believe me; how could a woman enjoy spoiling a man!? Unbelievable. But no, I genuinely do, and I wish there were more spaces for women like me with preferences like this.

[–] AlfredEinstein@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I like being spoiled.

And I baked a crusty loaf of sourdough bread this morning.

[–] clark@midwest.social 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Perfect match.

[–] wheeldawg@sh.itjust.works 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Now kiss

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago

Sourdough starter? I just met the girl!