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Cisgender people of Lemmygrad: why are you cis? (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by QueerCommie@lemmygrad.ml to c/asklemmygrad@lemmygrad.ml

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~semi-~ Serious question, Idon’t get it. Most of us get why the hegemonic gender system is stupid, why subscribe to the binary role you were assigned? Also, why do straight people exist? Maybe it’s just me but I like to look and feel like my own perception of what is attractive.

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[–] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

No urge to transition to anything other than my assigned gender. I might've experimented with skirts since they seem comfier but won't for fear of transphobia.

[–] Franfran2424@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Kilts? scottish print on the skirt and fuck it. To haters you tell them it is more manly than having your stuff all compressed

[–] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 4 points 8 months ago

I actually did that and then it becomes this weird conversation where I try to justify wearing traditional scottish clothes because I don't have the guts to openly challenge gender norms.