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When you're lonely, you don't become cripplingly hopeless and withdraw from life? You just contact some friends or easily make new friends and have a good time and carry on with life?

When you're driving your car and everything is fine until you come to a stoplight, you don't suddenly become depressed at the stoplight like I do?

When you wake up every morning, you don't have crippling existential dread? You just get up and go about your day cheerfully, without analyzing the futile meaninglessness of the big picture?

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[โ€“] vikinghoarder@infosec.pub 3 points 8 months ago

I tend to concern with my wellbeing, the wellbeing of those close to me and try to not concern about those things that I cannot control.

I tend to take interest in a lot of topics/hobbies and move from one topic to the next, trying to learn the most about it.

I'm a bit competitive and use games and sports to boost my ego, always focusing on more training when I cannot win. But no giving it too much attention that it makes me feel bad for not being the best I could be (It's not my main focus nor my income).