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submitted 6 months ago by lemmylem@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I just got ghosted by the girl I was talking to, I want to find another girl to talk to. This girl and I met at the gym, but I don't want to be the guy that goes to the gym just to meet girls. I mean sure there's the bar and Tinder, but I want a real relationship. I mean, I guess it'll come to me.

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[-] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 16 points 6 months ago

Nothing is less attractive than the stink of desperation. I said the same thing to a friend of mine. He was out of a relationship and looking for a new one. Within 6 months of not trying to find someone and just enjoying his life, there she was.

this post was submitted on 06 May 2024
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