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Advice on finding a partner?
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this post was submitted on 06 May 2024
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It's definitely not accidental. Ghosting simply doesn't happen if someone is truly interested romantically. They might be like "this guy's nice" and be accidentally ghosting, but in that case it's not a good romantic relationship anyway. If it's "this guy's so hot/amazing", accidental ghosting will not happen, because the thoughts will be occupied in trying to be with the guy.
It's also possible she's going through something bad and doesn't want to pull OP into that.
There's no way to tell with a lack of any communication, and assuming stuff is inaccurate.
Of course, but then it's still not the kind of accidental ghosting you talked about.