That took me, like, a minute to google both of those answers. C’mon, dude.
Yea good point. I tried to search “does shaming actually teach” but needed to move to “does shaming someone…”. Reading the articles I think “humiliation” is more the keyword here.

The problem with shame, in my experience, has been that it might reinforce one very specific thing strongly but it also closes people off to learning anything else. If they learn the wrong thing, new information changes what’s right, or they simply don’t know something yet it’s hard for them to admit that they’re wrong/missing info.

Being shouted at by an authority figure for leaving your dishes out, for example, might make sure you can’t see a dish without remembering that horrible event so you put it away but the extra baggage that comes with is so not worth it, not even a little.

[–] VirtualOdour@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Maladaptive learning, being bullied into certain behaviors makes you worse at others.

You learn a task like washing dishes but also a behavior like focusing only on outward appearance or letting other considerations go to the wayside to complete visually obvious tasks - the result may be using short cuts like improper cleaning methods which result in sickness (cleaning only the visible dirt) but also could lead to a culture of hiding faults (why do our guns look so clean but misfire so often, why are these reports filled in neatly and completely but ikey information is often wrong or fabricated)

The army and others try moving away from it but of course it's hard getting the changes through to people because when the army experts say 'stop hazing it's making us worse' everyone that was hazed says 'I was hazed and I'm the best possible version of myself!!!' or 'This is just liberal nonsense making us weak!'

[–] Soup@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

100% for days, yea. None of it ever gets to the root cause and it all comes back eventually.

It feels like most of the world runs on it from thousands of years of reinforcing those behaviours. If the threat of death or jail time is what you got for communication, even just as the messenger, then why even bother?