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[–] neatchee@lemmy.world 18 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Exactly this. Everyone has their own preferences and judging a person as a good/bad fit solely based on their gender identity and not any sort of subjective compatibility is fundamentally transphobic. It's assessing that trans people are objectively undesirable. Pretty messed up.

[–] tsonfeir@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago
[–] tkk13909@sopuli.xyz -4 points 6 months ago (2 children)
[–] neatchee@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

First: don't be a loser. Refer to trans women as women. Or are you a captive to your barbaric past?

Second: you're allowed to have a preference, but projecting your preference onto the world is transphobic. Making a joke that implies all trans people are undesirable to everyone is transphobic and self-centered.

You can be a better person than this. Give it a try. Otherwise you'll be left behind as a relic of a less civilized time

[–] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 1 points 6 months ago

Which is why you state your preference for genitalia in a partner. It’s okay if you don’t want to date a trans individual, but don’t go acting like your preference is the only valid choice.