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What was your worst experience at work? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by mayflower@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

before I got fit

Proceeds to ignore the "cured my social anxiety" part to find a way to be angry at women. This is the incel way 👍

[–] drewsipher@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just being confident does wonders. Be who you are unapologetically someone will find you attractive…. I got one making my Big Ass the little spoon RIGHT NOW

[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago

Yep, it's not as if only the most attractive men/women are in a relationship and very often you'll see people "punching above their weight" just because they are just very nice people to be with and that counts for a whole lot more than having a nice ass or big pipes!

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Fair. I was just shocked by it, and with the divorce going on and the infidelity of my dad and the social trauma my mother was willing to inflict on us, the undereating and the overexercising leading to the anoerexia... my entire value system was in a state of flux. I did not know what anything was worth anymore. Hell it was physically exhausting to smile. I was not in a stable mental state, and the last thing I needed was positive attention from women at the time.