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You're always going to be judged. If you base your own happiness on the collective opinion of society about you, you will never be happy. You can't control how other people feel, so you need to focus your mental energy on controlling your own feelings.
Sure, but that doesn't address harassment and bullying. If you think they just "need a thicker skin" you haven't been bullied in any meaningful way by a large group of hostile people.
True, however when I was visiting my brother earlier this year (for about a month) at least every three-four days he'd say something about my weight and how concerned he is.
It got very very tiring/grating after the first couple times he said something, so I just kinda had to tell him what's what with that part of my life. He still says it, but it's a bit less now.
I get how that could be "annoying", I don't get how that could be "bullying" or "fat-shaming", because honestly, it really isn't.
The worry seems to come from a place of love and care from what you're retelling, pushing away that advice from people close to you is not a solution to anything.
Edit: also it seems like you told him to stop after 2 times, when earlier you mention it happening every 3-4 days... It's not my place to ask but obviously your story has holes in it.
Go reread my comment.
Also, here's the definition for "Harass"
That's not what we're talking about and you know it. False narrative. The article specifically mentions violence and bullying. If you don't know that fat people also get viciously bullied on top of the "concerned about your health" from loved ones, you are the one who is isolated from reality.
It's a conflation from people who misinterpret worry from family as accusations. 90% of cases will have the very people who cry "fat-shaming" actually just be receiving advice from family or friends.