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[-] jadero@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

With that kind of thinking, no honest person would marry while still of an age where having children makes sense. There are no guarantees in life and only a fool thinks there is.

My personal opinion used to be that some people don't put the effort in to get through a rough patch. I've since realized that one person's rough patch is another's deal breaker. We're not all the same, and that includes responses to disaster and resilience in the face of adversity.

Just because it's not working now and there is no evidence that it can be made to work doesn't mean anyone entered into it in bad faith. That vow you reference might fit with certain ideologies, but it's as fragile in the face of reality as most ideologies.

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