As someone in an ENM relationship, no. If you're an awkward nerd who happened to hit it off with one person, you're still an awkward nerd when trying to hit it off with a second.
(ethical non-monogamy)
My thoughts exactly. Being in a relationship doesn't necessarily change the baseline of a person. Dating will probably still be the same.
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As someone in an ENM relationship, no. If you're an awkward nerd who happened to hit it off with one person, you're still an awkward nerd when trying to hit it off with a second.
(ethical non-monogamy)
My thoughts exactly. Being in a relationship doesn't necessarily change the baseline of a person. Dating will probably still be the same.