Damn, you're right, maybe I should do some reading on these "well known problems" that I haven't once experienced in my three years of using android. Sounds pretty bad /s

^ Edgy sarcasm aside, everything you said really is news to me. Is there really that much difference between different android ROMs? I'm running /e/-os on my phone (lineageos fork), and I don't think I've ever had issues with notifications or this "Doze" thing. I can't say for lemmy app / youtube music tho, I don't use those. Though I can relate a little bit to the third-party launcher thing -- I have MLauncher, and a recent update just completely crippled the search functionality for no reason.